New rules of excellence

What does it take for me to feel loved?:
Anytime I’m loving, any time I give love to some one. Any time I contribute for people, anytime I do something for people, any time I share some ideas, anytime I drink some water, anytime I think about my wife, anytime I think about someone, anytime I do something for somebody, anytime I treat people with dignity, anytime I practice any of 7 skills and/or any of 10 disciplines, anytime I can meet someone love strategy, anytime I think a loving throught, anytime I say I love you to myself.
What does it take for me to feel confidence?:
Anytime I remember that whatever happens I can handle it, anytime I talk to someone, anytime I contribute, anytime I manage my state, anytime I share with someone, anytime I breath deeply, anytime I feel certainty, anytime I look straigtht, anytime mybody is upright, anytime my head is up , anytime my back is straight, anytime I can visualize something, anytime that I think with critical myset, anytime that I give something to someone or to the world, anytime I speak Vietnamese, anytime I speak English, anytime I speak a new language, anytime I doing sales/business
What does it take for me to feel excellent at something?:
Anytime I do it more than two times, anytime people say that I’m good at that, anytime I take action, anytime I change my beliefs about that, anytime I vizualise of doing it, anytime I thank God in advance, anytime I feel good about it, anytime I ask myself powerful question, anytime I find out a simple new thing about it, any time I can learn something new about it, anytime I can make progress about it, anytime I can create a new ideas about doing it, anytime I create compelling reasons for doing it.
What does it take for me to feel inteligent?:
Anytime I can think of a new idea, anytime I can visualize something, anytime I ask for God’s help, anytime I model someone successful in the area, anytime I learn a new thing, anytime I can make a new change, anytime I ask what is great about this? Anytime I ask what is the best way of getting it done and enjoy the process, any time I share a idea with people, any time I can find out an answere, anytime I live with state of certainty, any time I create something new, anytime I listen with anticipation, anytime I listen with expect for variety and with the attitute of of critical mind set, any time I stop about too certain about something and start some variety about it